"Once in a while, from the middle of nowhere, he'll say, 'Why is that girl doing that? ' He'll check people out in restaurants and watch how they interact.
In a way, he's thinking about the company all the time." rind spent his formative years on a grain farm in the northern hinterlands of British Columbia -- "the bush," in local parlance.
His hometown, Hudson's Hope, is a cold, isolated place not far from the starting point of the Alaska Highway.
Frind's parents, German farmers who emigrated just before his fourth birthday, bought a 1,200-acre plot 10 miles from town and initially lived in a trailer without electricity, phones, or running water.
He seems perpetually lost in thought, constantly thinking about and studying the world around him.
"He's always watching his environment to apply it to the site," says Kanciar.
Frind will spend hours hiding in the three-bedroom apartment he and Kanciar share, furtively flipping light switches, tapping on doors, and ducking into rooms to play on his girlfriend's fear of ghosts.
Those who know Frind describe him as introverted, smart, and a little awkward.Though his mouth was on fire, Frind calmly planted a kiss on Kanciar's lips and feigned ignorance as she went scrambling for water.Kanciar, a freelance Web designer who also helps out around Plenty of Fish, is a lanky blonde with an easy smile and a hearty laugh, which she often uses to try to get Frind to open up.The family's closest neighbors were a mile and a half away, and, apart from a younger brother, Frind had few friends."His problem was English," says his father, Eduard Frind.Yahoo (NASDAQ: YHOO), he says, is "a complete joke," Google (NASDAQ: GOOG) is "a cult," and Match is "dying." Says Mark Brooks, a marketing consultant who has advised Frind since 2006, "I've never known anybody so competitive.